February 8, 2026

The SEND U Blog

Reflections and Resources for Lifelong Learning for Missionaries

Category: Character

Musar and Healthy Conflict: A Biblical Lens on Team Health
Confrontation, Teaming

Musar and Healthy Conflict: A Biblical Lens on Team Health

Recently, the International Leadership Team (ILT) of SEND International went through an exercise to identify our strengths and weaknesses in relation to Patrick Lencioni’s model of the Five Dysfunctions of a Team. (Yes, Lencioni wrote a book about this, and it definitely is worth reading.) This framework has been widely used in leadership development because it highlights common barriers to team effectiveness. The Five Dysfunctions of a Team Lencioni’s identifies these five dysfunctions: Absence of Trust – Team members are unwilling to be vulnerable. Fear of Conflict – The desire to preserve artificial harmony stifles productive, ideological conflict. Lack of Commitment – Without clarity and buy-in, decisions lack support. Avoidance of Accountability – The need to avoid interpersonal discomfort prevents members from holding one another accountable. Inattention to Results – Pursuit of individual goals erodes focus on collective success. Fear of Conflict and What Leaders Can Do Fear of conflict… Read the whole post
Ken Guenther8 mins read
Training for missionary retention
Mentoring, Resilience, Lifelong Learning, Spiritual Formation, Training, Pre-field Training

Training for missionary retention

Missio Nexus gathers mission leaders across North America. In September, they hosted a session on training for missionary retention. This topic matters because it touches the core of what sustains us in long-term cross-cultural work. Moreover, the discussion challenged me to think deeply about how we prepare and support workers for the long haul. Three Predictors of Long-Term Sustainability During the session, facilitator Elliot Stephens shared research that highlights three key predictors of sustainability for cross-cultural workers. First, spiritual vitality. Second, relational maturity. Third, ministry effectiveness. 1. Spiritual Vitality This area involves dependence on God, love for Scripture and prayer, healthy humility, a deep grasp of grace, and a theology of suffering. 2. Relational Maturity It includes genuine love in close friendships and marriages, healthy teams with redemptive conflict resolution, and the ability to form local friendships and feel at home in host communities. 3. Ministry Effectiveness This area focuses… Read the whole post
Bethany Reedy4 mins read
Breakthroughs Among the Unreached: Waiting on the Master of Breakthroughs
Hardship, Resilience, Church Planting

Breakthroughs Among the Unreached: Waiting on the Master of Breakthroughs

The Long Road to Breakthrough If you’ve served among unreached people groups for any length of time, you know the ache of waiting. You know the weight of sowing seeds year after year, often with little visible fruit. You know the tension between hope and disappointment, between faith and frustration. Furthermore, you know what it is to pray for a breakthrough—a moment when the gospel finally takes root and begins to spread, when a church is born, when the kingdom of God becomes visible in a new place. But how long does it take for a breakthrough to come? And what do we do in the waiting? Most importantly, who is the true author of every breakthrough? This post is for those of you who are laboring in hard soil, tempted to lose heart, and wondering if your efforts will ever bear fruit. What have we learned about breakthroughs? And… Read the whole post
Ken Guenther9 mins read
Practicing the Way: Living as Apprentices of Jesus in Cross-Cultural Mission
Disciple-making, Spiritual Formation, Resilience

Practicing the Way: Living as Apprentices of Jesus in Cross-Cultural Mission

In the ever-shifting landscape of cross-cultural ministry, sustaining a vibrant and resilient spiritual life is both a personal necessity and a communal calling. As missionaries, we often find ourselves navigating complex cultural dynamics, high demands, and spiritual fatigue. In this context, John Mark Comer’s book, Practicing the Way offers a timely and transformative vision of discipleship—not as a set of beliefs, but as a way of life modeled after Jesus. One of the book’s most practical and powerful tools is the concept of a Rule of Life. It provides a flexible framework for organizing our daily rhythms around abiding in Christ. In this post, we’ll explore a synopsis of Comer’s book and highlight its relevance for missionary teams. I will share some additional resources to help your team craft a shared Rule of Life that fosters unity, spiritual depth, and long-term fruitfulness. Book Synopsis Discipleship as Apprenticeship Practicing the Way… Read the whole post
Ken Guenther6 mins read
Work-Life Balance
Cross-Cultural Living, Resilience

Work-Life Balance

This past year, I have been reading about work-life balance. I have been looking for resources that would help our workers in cross-cultural contexts. Over the past few years, I have heard many of them tell me that work-life balance is a huge issue for them. So in 2024, I sought to both understand the problem more fully and look for ways to equip our missionaries to better deal with this challenge. The following is a summary of some of the things that we have learned. The Myth of Work-Life Balance I quickly learned that many authors question whether a work-life balance is even possible. Our May 2024 edition of our monthly newsletter, the SEND U Training Tracks explored the concept of work-life balance and questioned whether it is a myth. Pursuing balance can actually create additional stress and anxiety. The 7-Slice Method In this newsletter, I introduced David McNeff’s book, The… Read the whole post
Ken Guenther5 mins read
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